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My boyfriend and I are in long distance ...

unknown — Sat, 12 Mar 2011 19:12:30 GMT

I'm gonna have to agree with EVERYTHING and I mean EVERYTHING BnabsNC just stated. Had she not written all of that, I most definitely would have! I realize it's been 3 months since this was posted, but it came across for me to answer so again... Give him his space and let him pursue YOU! Good Luck!

Love him and want to control my feeling for him

Woman — Mon, 12 Jul 2010 21:50:30 GMT

I would RUN!!! Sounds like you're giving your all and he's giving you half (if even that). Try dating/meeting other people. Get into some kind of activity that would keep your mind off of things. My 'rock' when I'm dealing with something like this is my girlfriends. I have several close friends and without them I'm not sure what I'd do. Point is: get out and quit obsessing over things. Once you find the courage to do so keep your head straight because he'll probably try coming back around, but I wouldn't give him the benefit!

Why is it important to be aware of the unhealthy characteristics of a relationship?

mbrazier — Fri, 13 Aug 2010 02:45:20 GMT

Because you in the long run want to be happy. If you're seeing 'red flags' then more than likely you're merely wasting your time. Why would you risk doing that when there's the right one out there for you? I know this can be difficult as I have been in the same situation.. You know you shouldn't stay, but love the person so much you can't imagine life without them.

Whats the best type of nail polish to use that dries fast and stays on long?

brianna31796 — Mon, 17 Aug 2009 23:49:00 GMT

I recommend OPI. It has been the best I've found thus far that actually stays on and usually dries within 5 mins. PS. A great shade too, would be 'kinky in helsinki'!

When I use lipgloss eventually I get a white line where the gloss is on my lip. Any tips to avoid this?

sunrise32566 — Thu, 13 Aug 2009 18:08:53 GMT

Are you talking about the inner lip? If so, mine does that some too. I have found that Sephora and MAC lipgloss are less likely to do this and I've tried ALL kinds! Preferably MAC in the shade of florabundance. Hope this helps!

I have blonde hair and blue eyes, What would be the best shade of Lipstick,and blush be for me? Thank-You

ckblondy2009, or Sharon — Wed, 19 Aug 2009 19:07:39 GMT

I'm blonde with blue eyes. I usually stick to the pinks. I think they look the best plus are very much in style, but then again this only my opinion.

Sweatie face

yoco44 — Wed, 19 Aug 2009 15:40:03 GMT

Not quite sure what you're wearing now, but I'm a huge fan of MAC products. I have found it to be very much sweat proof while adding good coverage. Although girlie.grl1 may have the better suggestion from her answer. Hope this helped some..

Ted Kennedy

stella41 — Wed, 26 Aug 2009 06:57:39 GMT

Who cares?

Ageless beauty

mandymouse2000 — Thu, 13 Aug 2009 17:48:00 GMT

Make an appt with a good esthetician. You'd be surprised what little things you could have taken care of in such little time!

Polishing nails

Keith — Tue, 25 Aug 2009 16:04:41 GMT

If you're painting them clear maybe, otherwise I couldn't be attracted to any man that paints his toenails any colorful color.

Who should make the first move?

QuanaLuv-Lee — Fri, 26 Jun 2009 02:46:43 GMT

Not at all.. Considering this is the 'first date' he should be the one going out of his way to see you/take you out.. I'd bring this up to him and tell him if he still wants to do the date he should ride the train to Manhattan because of the late night circumstance.. If he can't or won't that should tell you how much he's not interested, so I wouldn't waste my time.

What can you do for sunpoisen?

driggersjerry@yahoo.com — Sun, 28 Jun 2009 21:56:53 GMT

There's nothing more important than seeing a doctor when it comes to sun poison.. As Sweet Rose said.. GET IT TO THE EMERGENCY ROOM!!!!!!!!!

Intimacy

robotstar2 — Wed, 17 Jun 2009 22:31:45 GMT

If she's as attractive as you say she is she may just not need the attention you give her as much.. Typically if a female is that attractive she can just walk into a room and receive plenty of attention. As the others suggested I'd sit her down and talk with her about it considering you're feelings and how bothered you are. Remember communication is KEY!!

Does anyone know anything about cochlear hypercussis?

Donna aka Maya — Sat, 30 May 2009 11:59:51 GMT

I only have a general idea of what it is so I'm not sure if I'll be much help. What I know is that it's a health condition that causes an oversensitivity to certain sounds. I think the most noticeable things are listening to people eating or clicking their fingers. I think it also has to do with some type of damage to the inner ear which causes it. Sorry I can't be more help.

What is hailong travel?

david — Sat, 30 May 2009 11:26:55 GMT

HaiLong travel is traveling in Vietnam/Asian. I think it is a term used to describe touring the different cities in Vietnam. I'm not quite sure what else you want to know without more info, but what I would suggest doing is contacting a travel agent who could further answer more of your questions. This is free and less time consuming. Good luck!

Help

TOMY — Thu, 28 May 2009 18:53:13 GMT

I do not consider you to be a bad parent.. if you were you wouldn't have written on here to ask questions.. In other words.. You are a concerned parent which is a natural quality to have. As far as your neighbors you may need to sit the closest ones to you down and explain the situation. Be sure to be apologetic and go from there. In the meantime you may need to learn to discipline your child a little more as this will only cause more problems if you don't. Also try and get more help from your girlfriend with the discipline. You never mentioned her helping in your question. She too could help talk to your neighbors and explain the situation. REMEMBER: Kind words can go deep.