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RE: Question, I have a 16 year old daughter she does ... by maruawe

maruawe — Thu, 09 Jun 2011 13:17:03 GMT

It's her choice, Your husband is wrong in trying to push her. A person's body talks to them and she heard what her body is telling her. At 16 years old she seems smart to listen to her inner self. PS listening to your inner self has saved my life a lot of times in 60+ years.

RE: Termination of Account by maruawe

maruawe — Tue, 10 May 2011 12:48:38 GMT

This is probably a scam Call your ISP and ask for support move the email to the spam folder and look at the full header or right click on your mouse and click on page source If other than your isp's address delete and forget

RE: "BULLING" You know, that is such a shame to ... by maruawe

maruawe — Sat, 07 May 2011 13:18:49 GMT

Bulling has been around forever, And it will always be around. Where most bullies are mostly trying to show off in front of friends,most would not even try this type of thing when they are by themselves, Because they have emotional problems, To stop this type We have to teach a child or grownup to stand up for themselves.Not run and hide and be afraid. People want to stop violence ,But there is noway that will happen. We must quit being naive and realize that we are sometimes in our life going to have to use violence to protect ourselves and family.. Most bullies have a discipline problem as well as an emotional problem ,Work on that slow the problem.......

RE: I received an email my aol security team stating ... by maruawe

maruawe — Tue, 26 Apr 2011 13:05:43 GMT

Delete the email--Then go tho the site mention and check thee Q&A to see if someone else has received the same email You may even call support and ask if there is a problem

Don't use the email to give personal information

RE: Plastic floor puzzle with shape pieces by maruawe

maruawe — Mon, 04 Apr 2011 13:28:38 GMT

I am not sure I understand the question. IS it a puzzle for children or adults? or is it about the content of the puzzle ? or is it the safety of the puzzles.

This broad a question is hard to answer in a manner that will satisfy your quest.

The grand kids have some plastic puzzles that are very good and educational and safe for them to play with . If this is what you mean by plastic floor puzzles then you will need to research the manufacturers to find the best on for your situation

RE: Relationship by maruawe

maruawe — Sat, 12 Mar 2011 17:42:10 GMT

He could be fantasizing about sex to the point of obsession, Which is bad for his mental health, And it could be that you are not fulfilling his desires while having sex.

Either way you should talk to him about his obsession with porn, If he is strongly against talking about it. Then get some counseling yourself and learn how to combat his issues. or break up and go find someone else.

RE: Illegal aliens and their anchor children are ... by maruawe

maruawe — Thu, 10 Mar 2011 14:14:28 GMT

I agree , But until you can get rid of the bleeding liberals and the strong Mexican organizations that back these illegals congress will do nothing to change the way it is now. If you want change ,start an online petition to change the anchor baby law. The problem is that congress is afraid to influence the Mexican vote (esp. Democrats) because they give a lot of money to congressmen for their campaigns.

And they don't want that money to dry up. Most elections have been bought this way for the last forty years or more and there seems to be no let up in these payments to congressmen for their vote in matters such as these.

RE: There are no hard rules for talking about sex to ... by maruawe

maruawe — Wed, 09 Mar 2011 14:27:40 GMT

There are no hard rules for talking about sex to children. Study the reproductive system and it makes it easier to explain.As you said, there are many references on the internet for the parent and child to study and learn. I know that I have learned a lot about a lot of subjects on the internet some good, some bad. But I have never found knowledge to be a bad thing. One must use whatever means that they have at their disposal to get the right information. Even the Library has reference books available ( the old fashion way). What I'm saying is you have to try, you can not put off the inquisitiveness of a child's mind you just have to do the best you can....

RE: Why not Birth Control? by maruawe

maruawe — Tue, 08 Mar 2011 13:11:42 GMT

This is a question for each family to make . You cannot keep a person from trying sex or being sexually active. If you can have an open discussion about sex with your child then you are better off than most parents. Your choice was a good one and shows that you are parents and friends with your children The biggest problem seems to be a parent wants to dominate their child. "I'm the parent and you will do as I say". A lot of parents want the answers to be simple ,But the answers come hard a lot of the time and are not easy.That's why you learn as you go,and try to do the best we can as parents.

RE: Can I help my daughter deal with her boys? by maruawe

maruawe — Fri, 25 Feb 2011 16:36:33 GMT

A child that is that young and throws tantrums and gets away with it (esp. in public)shows that the parents are content with just trying to get along. Tough love is doing what is necessary to gain the respect of a child. If she will tell the child ONCE that if he does not stop,he will get a spanking and count 1 to 3 ,if he does not stop spank his butt, I believe that with my four children I spanked them once apiece, Then when I started to count ,they quit what they were doing,because they knew that it did not matter to me where we were that when I said stop that I meant what I said and would do what I said that I would do.

I do believe in the adage "Spare the rod and spoil the child". I know also in this day and time that spanking a child is frowned upon. But as a parent if you do not teach respect there will be none. I DO NOT believe in beating a child. There is a tremendous difference between beating and spanking . I would probably get in trouble if I came upon a person beating or slapping a child . Fact is that I was almost arrested once for slapping a man that slapped a child in front of me in a restaurant

RE: Restricting her from her friend will only cause a ... by maruawe

maruawe — Sun, 20 Feb 2011 14:43:41 GMT

Restricting her from her friend will only cause a lot of future problems. Why does it make any difference where the cigarettes came from, if it was only one cigarette or a pack between them, you are shifting blame to some else. You cannot do that, if she was caught then it is her problem ,not where it came from or who gave it to her.

RE: Im very shocked my daughter got caught smoking at ... by maruawe

maruawe — Sun, 20 Feb 2011 14:35:27 GMT

If you don't believe in corporal punishment the the next 12 years are going to be tough. I take it you two don't talk much. If you did then you would have picked up on the signs of exploratory wanderings of her mind.. Did you explain to her the reason for her not to smoke...And please do not restrict her from seeing her friend(wrong move). I smoke and have four kids that do not smoke and their children do not smoke.

Understand that kids will explore many things and you won't like most of them, But you will need to have the answers or know where to get answers that they will ask questions about . And talk to your kids you will learn a lot about their thoughts.

As a child's friend you can learn more than being the parent. Kids talk to friends in the most intimate way, Don't be shocked by what you hear and answer questions honestly

RE: Threaten to destroy toys by maruawe

maruawe — Sun, 20 Feb 2011 14:20:53 GMT

It is a waste of time to make threats. If you can not or will not make good on the threats don't even say them. If you want to discipline a child or teen, do what you say that you will do, and then do it. Once you fail to do something then you have lost the battle and do not negotiate. It may be hard to do the first time, but it will get easier as you learn to stop the threats and set an example of doing what you say you will do.

RE: Sharper than a serpent's tooth by maruawe

maruawe — Thu, 17 Feb 2011 14:39:04 GMT

I have an adopted daughter that comes and goes in my life, She knows that we love her and will support her ,But she lives a different lifestyle than us.. All you can do is when they call or come by is to let them know that they are supported and that you love them. But at 24 years old she is supposed to be an adult and make the decisions in her life. We must let them go to find her own way in life.

RE: Sounds like the child needs a positive ... by maruawe

maruawe — Wed, 09 Feb 2011 14:40:10 GMT

Sounds like the child needs a positive reinforcement on the seat of the pants . A few licks with the hand on the royal bottom will help a whole lot in correction. trying to talk to a small child is worthless to find problems. Corrective solutions with enforcement will do the trick.

The trouble with modern parents they will not follow through with punishment. When they know that they will be punished for misdeeds then the misdeeds will decrease at an alarming rate.

Spanking is not abuse if used correctly. It does not take a lot of force to get their attention, never strike a child in the head or chest

area. spank on the butt.

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RE: Is breastfeeding in public offensive? by maruawe

maruawe — Tue, 25 Jan 2011 14:20:11 GMT

NO! it is a beautiful thing for a mother to breast feed . the Mother should be discreet in exposing the brest , But other than that they should be able to feed an infant anywhere.

RE: Can you protect your kid from school bullies? by maruawe

maruawe — Tue, 25 Jan 2011 14:16:48 GMT

First never back down from a bully. then learn their weakness, watch their eyes most of the time they are as scared as you are. Children must learn to stand up for themselves.

You can never solve a bully problem by walking away this is what they want. if you have to fight then do what ever is necessary to win. there are no fair fights. Teaching a child to walk away is the way to encourage bullies. In life, violence is always just around the corner and you have to be prepared to use violence to protect youself and family.

This may seem harsh but it is a fact of life and there is no quarter for people that will not stand up for themselves.. The no violence rules are people in dreamland and not in the real world..... Classes in self defence are available .the most you can do is teach a child self confidence

RE: How can I tell my parents I need to see a doctor? by maruawe

maruawe — Mon, 24 Jan 2011 14:17:42 GMT

This may be important to your future life. the direct approach with your Mother is the best

she will understand that it is important to you and will help. Or ask the school nurse to interseed for you,But immediate consultation with a doctor is the thing that will ease yor mind about what caused the lump.

RE: Our almost 5 year old will spit, punch, bite, kick ... by maruawe

maruawe — Fri, 21 Jan 2011 14:19:41 GMT

An old fashion spanking will do the trick. when my children started this type of stuff. I would get their attention and tell them that I am going to count to three. if I get to three you will get a spanking. After two or three spankings, they knew that I would do as I said and then all I had to do was get their attention and start to count. Now they all are grown and use the same strategy on their children.. you have to remember to keep your temper in tack, there is a big difference in spanking their butt and beating a child. slapping is out that is not necessary and can hurt a child. Discipline is the answer to most of the problems with children in todays world..

RE: What is your advice in bringing up children that would help with discipline in the teen years? by maruawe

maruawe — Mon, 10 Jan 2011 14:36:19 GMT

The way that I used was to listen to their questions and answer the questions truthfully as if they were adults and I treated them as adults. Most adults won't listen and try to answer them as talking to a child and they resent it. sometimes it is hard but treating them as an equal and not as parent and child seems to give them a balance of power ,Giving them the confidence to ask questions that would not be ask if the situation was different.

RE: Is there a website somewhere where you can type in ... by maruawe

maruawe — Tue, 04 Jan 2011 14:40:38 GMT

I have used Google to find recalled products. In the search type in the model number and the company name . or you can type in recalls then the company name and the model number this has worked for other products Good luck

Minority rules for the majority

maruawe — Sun, 02 Jan 2011 16:03:22 GMT

why are we depriving our children for the sake of a religion . The "santa" story is an example of one person depriving others of the enjoyment for children that Christmas and other holidays bring and that are not liked in foreign countries. this is unacceptable for the sake of children everywhere.