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Sociological: Do you think you are a good person?

Evan Ed — Mon, 14 Jan 2013 20:01:25 GMT

I honestly don't believe anyone is particularly a good or bad person; people just do good or bad things. No one is perfect and to make mistakes is the essence of being human, it is when we strive to be something impossible for us to be that we run into trouble such as living up to the standards of any religion that restricts the very things that make us who we are. To accept such gods is to lay aside the responsibility we all have for what we do and say. Christianity, Islam, and the Jewish religions have been particularly horrible for humanity and the Earth. Too many people fear the most ridiculous things when the things they should fear most are held up as paragons of virtue. How does anyone believe in the things they can't understand and how does anyone revere the things most shameful in all our known history? Get real, please, you have a duty to the space you take up on our planet.

In AZ, how do I leagly declare my child to be incorrigible and what are the consequenses of doing so? I can't take anymore.

ayalabear1 — Thu, 27 Dec 2012 03:39:50 GMT

You don't, the courts do and often the parents are held accountable for their child's behavior.

If an atheist were to kill and eat someone and go ...

Rick badman — Sun, 30 Dec 2012 20:21:35 GMT

I suppose a defendant could try to use anything as a defense against a charge of murder just as you could use the defense that the Bible told you to do it if you stoned a witch to death. I say go for it and see how successful you are. People don't need an imaginary god to tell them what is right or wrong, good upbringing will do that.

Will you sign and share these petitions calling for the government to seriously address mass shootings?

Andy — Fri, 14 Dec 2012 23:55:10 GMT

Nope I won't. All this knee-jerk legislation won't do anything except make it harder on those of us who do abide by the law. I will, however, continue to support and promote abortion which has shown how effective it truly is in decreasing the crime rate.

What do you think about the effort to strengthen the American economy?

QOTD — Wed, 02 Jan 2013 09:22:49 GMT

I think our economy isn't going anywhere real fast and won't as long as we're playing the same games with different politicians. Those of us who have been ruined won't ever get over it and the rest will be just holding their breath in hopes of it not happening to them. One good thing about it all is getting out from under all that debt. The ten years before our bankruptcy all my money was going to our debt, now that I'm unemployed and without debt, you can't really tell that much difference--I still don't have money but I do know now what is important and what isn't.

Programs for men in relationships with women that causes them to be violent

Patricia — Thu, 06 Dec 2012 14:54:47 GMT

Women don't cause men to be violent, their emotional immaturity is what causes them to be violent. Incarceration is a great program for men who can't control their tempers.

How does a same sex couple split a negative asset estate

Edward — Fri, 04 Jan 2013 05:07:21 GMT

As evenly and fairly as possible, depending of course on how reasonable both parties are at the given moment.

How to get someone out of house waiting for divorce court date in California

sjones91320 — Thu, 13 Sep 2012 18:53:57 GMT

Generally the person wanting the divorce is the one who leaves; most states are community property states and you'll have to sell the house and split any profits anyway, so what difference does it make?

I live with my boyfriend and have been with him ...

sweet1 — Fri, 21 Sep 2012 08:29:02 GMT

I think you have major issues that make it impossible to know the difference between a good relationship and a destructive one. You can't love someone who has lied to you simply because you can't possibly know who they are. If any mate in any relationship fails to build you up, then it is not a good relationship worth having. Love yourself and leave that loser behind.

Am i being conned by this employer???

woodsjawsfar3 — Sun, 23 Sep 2012 22:23:59 GMT

Did you apply? Have you done any research on them? When in doubt resort to some common sense rules: There are no free lunches and if it sounds too good to be true, then it usually is and all employers have real, concrete places of business where you will enter to apply for a job and sign paperwork before giving out any kind of important information.

Why are Blacks allowed to attack Whites in America with no recourse!

Mark N Starla Traina — Fri, 31 Aug 2012 22:59:11 GMT

Don't you think you're being a bit dramatic not to mention racially biased? You have no proof of what you're saying.

Why haven't obama's economic policies worked?

Anonymous — Mon, 03 Sep 2012 18:27:21 GMT

They have.

Will President Obama win RE-ELECTION?

Mark N Starla Traina — Sun, 16 Sep 2012 22:50:45 GMT

Yes, Obama is a shoe-in for reelection but only because there is no one better in the running. No one in their right mind could possibly stomach Romney.

What if something wonderful happens?

William Elder — Fri, 07 Sep 2012 04:04:20 GMT

Obama hasn't failed as a president, people who are ruled by their hypocrisy and racism have failed their country and fellow men by allowing themselves to be swayed by the shallow empty promises of others like them which is the only possible reason Romney is able to run today. Get a clue and get some wisdom. You can't beat facts.

Does Romney really plan to win? DEA Agent: Romney ...

Dea Watch — Tue, 14 Aug 2012 00:56:52 GMT

Romney doesn't have a chance in hell of being elected president and the entire Republican party knows it which explains their poor behavior since Obama started running. Mark these words and look at the numbers of voters who make their choices known in the end; the Democrats will win by a landslide because the Republicans are so out of touch with reality.

Glucosamine and chondroitin for joints health?

steav — Tue, 07 Aug 2012 12:08:07 GMT

There is no evidence that suggests that either drug works to slow the progression of arthritis or relieve its pain; in fact, the opposite is true--there is evidence that it does not work.

How effective are peppermint pills for IBS?

Anonymous — Mon, 13 Aug 2012 17:17:51 GMT

They aren't effective.

Obama disrespecting America

Anonymous Coward: — Thu, 09 Aug 2012 00:25:00 GMT

To be fair, none of the above displayed people are saluting the flag properly--one has to be facing the flag to salute it properly.

Why were beds high in the old days?

Anonymous — Sun, 12 Aug 2012 20:14:15 GMT

Bed heights weren't necessarily higher in the old days but heights did vary more because people generally built their own furniture.

Is there no end to racism in this country? http://www.commondreams.org/further/2012/07/11-2

greatbear215 — Thu, 12 Jul 2012 14:26:47 GMT

I doubt many people can see themselves as the racists they are. We got an entire political party out there up in arms because we have a black man as president. We have numerous governors who take a great deal of pride in theirs and we have at least some margin of the public who are willing to throw away all reason in order to live with theirs. Being racist is okay because God says so, yanno?

The way the way the republicans handled this is sickening! http://www.commondreams.org/further/2012/06/04-4

greatbear215 — Tue, 05 Jun 2012 18:07:13 GMT

We have no government any longer, just the semblance of one. This country is run by big business who's responsibility is to their investors, not the public good. This is what happens when we cower and quake and fearlessly give up our constitutional rights so we can fight some nameless enemy we were told we had instead of standing strong for what is right. Cowards deserve the hell they've made for themselves.

How is it going to end this time?

QOTD — Tue, 05 Jun 2012 05:57:06 GMT

How is what going to end? She isn't the first to sell herself for money and a good lifestyle.

Are hot tubs bad for childrens health?

Paul Carr — Tue, 10 Apr 2012 02:51:44 GMT

It's recommended that no child under 5 be allowed in hot tubs but yeah, they'd notice when the child started having seizures like some do when they spike fevers. Hot tubs are set to automatically shut off after 15 minutes, the time it takes adults to start feeling the effects on increased body temps-- but consider a child whose body is so much smaller in size--the child's body would be well overheated far sooner than that of the adult. Babies aren't recommended to be in hot tubs at all and neither are pregnant women whose fetus can develop abnormalities by being exposed to the heat of hot tubs throughout the entire pregnancy. Hot tubs are dangerous and not for children, the elderly or pregnant women and I'm just focusing on the heat issue here. Bacterial exposure is another problem entirely.

What would you do dated a single parent and they asked you for a background check because their ex hurt their child?

Andy — Fri, 11 May 2012 06:18:49 GMT

Stay out of serious relationships with people who have children.

Why are American women worn out, multiple kids with no REAL man?

cindytownsend78 — Wed, 30 May 2012 05:08:57 GMT

Because they wish to have children and were blessed enough to figure out that there are no 'real' men out here.

Im a 15f and love older men. Is that a bad thing?

Kaylacutie2012 — Wed, 30 May 2012 14:23:55 GMT

Yes it is. Tell your parents.

Zmy doctor will not prescribe provigil. I have Es or Osa and have had to be resesitated in Er twice. what else can I take

peggy — Tue, 29 May 2012 20:21:27 GMT

The recommended treatment for sleepiness caused by untreated sleep apnea is not addictive drugs--your doctor is correct; you need to seek other options that will correct the problem rather than treat the side effects.

Do you think our economy is on the right track?

Shoba Bakhsh — Mon, 21 May 2012 14:43:08 GMT

Not at all and it won't be until those who caused all the crap in the first place change the conditions that allowed it to happen and why would they when there's still money to con out of the public. If you believe the economy is changing for the good, then I can only surmise that your turn is coming.

How long is a foreclosure on your credit, when you cosign

Elly — Fri, 25 May 2012 16:54:59 GMT

After you file bankruptcy about 8-10 years I think. You WILL have to file bankruptcy if you own any property of your own or you'll have to take over the payment if you don't want to end up in court. Better to get your ducks in a row while it's still easy.

What do I do now.

Randy Chambers — Mon, 21 May 2012 02:24:54 GMT

Being a heart patient and having your knees replaced really has nothing to do with your ability to get and keep a job according to your own statement. You'll have to move to another place whether its with family or the curb. Other unfortunate people have faced the same fate as yourself and if they're lucky, they have family who can help them; if you don't have children at home and you are not legally disabled, then you do not qualify for any assistance anywhere.

Hi - I've been told that if someone enters a ...

mwdsun — Tue, 29 May 2012 14:20:56 GMT

You were told wrong. Medicaid patients do not usually have any kind of property that is worth much money because requirements to get on medicaid do not allow for it.

What is the difference between alendronate tablets and Actonel tablets

Shirley Hubbard — Sat, 26 May 2012 23:15:15 GMT

Both drugs are used to treat osteoporosis and some doctors prefer one drug over another--you would have to ask him or her why they chose one over another.

Excruciating anal pain

david — Sun, 27 May 2012 14:36:14 GMT

Vyvanse is known to cause loose stools and loose stools can irritate the skin. Contact your physician.

Natural and Drug Free Pain Relief for this discomfort

Matilda B. Cunning — Mon, 28 May 2012 01:18:36 GMT

The best thing to do for pain without taking medication--and you don't state what is causing your pain--is to avoid whatever activities which cause the pain.

Addiction

Ronald — Mon, 28 May 2012 03:55:59 GMT

Addiction is a neurological disorder that some people have a genetic predisposition for.

I have to take 3ml or 600mg of liquid how do i measure it

sirbryn — Mon, 28 May 2012 15:37:37 GMT

The pharmacist dispensing the medication should have given you the means to measure it or if it were over the counter, the means to measure it would come included in the package--I could tell you that 5ml approx. equals 1 tsp but you need 3ml which is more than one half teaspoon. I suggest you go back to the pharmacy you got the drug from and have them solve your problem.

Www.chantix.com I have been off chantix for a week ...

Anonymous — Mon, 28 May 2012 17:12:18 GMT

You could be experiencing some sort of allergic reaction--take some over the counter benadryl and contact your doctor.

Where to purchase magnets for back pain?

bdunch — Mon, 28 May 2012 20:09:33 GMT

Magnets cannot help pain; as another person said, if you found relief it was in your mind which makes a great deal of sense--pain sensation IS in your mind.

Am 40 and need income. can no longer work and have wife and young son

pdoctorjim — Tue, 29 May 2012 12:54:53 GMT

Join the club. You'll need your wife to work and lower your cost of living.

Purpose of Long Term Care?

Anonymous — Tue, 29 May 2012 14:15:38 GMT

Not really IMO because if you get to the point that you need it, your medicaid will pay for it--the trouble is most nursing homes only take a certain amount of medicaid patients depending on what their medical problems are and long term care insurance will only pay for so much. Most insurance is legalized protection which is of questionable worth.

How to lower ast score

beverleyannd — Tue, 29 May 2012 16:02:00 GMT

It is not something you can change--an increased AST level indicates that your heart or liver has been damaged which is why they usually do an ALT level on you at the same time, to discover whether it is your heart or your liver that has been damaged.

Are Orthodontic bands for closing teeth gaps, safe? One example is Oralband. There are others on the Internet. are others.

Anonymous — Tue, 29 May 2012 18:50:43 GMT

No, orthodontic appliances are not safe. What dentists fail to tell people who chose to adjust the bone structure of their mouth is that any such adjustments leaves the person at great risk for infection.

I have my first appt with a pain clinic tomorrow ...

Lynne Smith — Tue, 29 May 2012 18:59:09 GMT

Why are you going to a pain clinic for migraines? You should be going to a neurologist for migraines.

Are hot tubs bad for childrens health?

Paul Carr — Tue, 10 Apr 2012 02:51:44 GMT

Yes, hot tubs can be quite dangerous to a child's health. Children, depending on their age, do not have the ability to control their inner temperatures that adults have, so when an adult starts feeling that they've been in a hot tub long enough through the effects of higher body temperatures caused by warm water, then they can get out easy enough; children don't always have that ability to self regulate.

Is it okay to add fiber to a 5 year-old's milk ...

mariana — Wed, 30 May 2012 00:25:13 GMT

NO it is not okay; supplemental fiber can be dangerous even to adults.

Should Transgenders compete in beauty contests?

QOTD — Mon, 26 Mar 2012 13:24:39 GMT

I think it should be against the rules to require beauty contestants to drop their drawers in order to compete.

Benefits to working moms only?

QOTD — Sun, 15 Apr 2012 18:51:58 GMT

Restore a decent work ethic?? As in we use to have decent work ethics but now we don't? Might I ask how you developed this idea?

Can a illegal and ineligible

LEE — Thu, 24 May 2012 12:45:45 GMT

I don't think the GOP can apologize their way out of the embarrassment they've brought to our country.

BTK killer

Anonymous — Sun, 27 May 2012 10:08:32 GMT

He had one public defender, Steve Osborn. He plead guilty to all charges.

Legal divorce?

Lynn — Fri, 25 May 2012 13:35:47 GMT

Say that I know this person who has gone by the name of Millie for as long as she can remember but her given, legal name is Esmerelda; she introduces herself as Millie to people but uses her legal given name when filling out paperwork and doesn't think twice about introducing herself to her divorce lawyer as Millie Soinso when they first meet so the lawyer fills her name on the paperwork as Millie Soinso rather than Esmerelda Soinso so she never really realized it until decades later when she had occasion to look up paperwork from that divorce and realized they had used her nickname rather than her given name. I don't know anyone who calls her by her legal name and I've known her all my life--no dark stinky secret there, just an oversight.