http://aolanswers.com/questions/ex-facebook-cheating-family_495088038785171/depends-purely-motive-nbsp_273463709115054?src=rss:qbp:qpbs<p>It depends purely on your motive.  Curiosity?  Discussing it with your current spouse beforehand?  Keeping it a secret from your current love because deep down you are hoping to get back with your ex?   If I were your current spouse and you did it without explaining to me why you were interested, I'd call it cheating.  Interest in another (on the sly) will make your current spouse feel as if you've cheated.  Secrets like that can be destructive.</p>en-ushttp://s1.anscdn.net/images/answers/aolanswerslogo_rmtaac1f83.gifhttp://aolanswers.com/questions/ex-facebook-cheating-family_495088038785171/depends-purely-motive-nbsp_273463709115054?src=rss:qbp:qpbs<p>It depends purely on your motive.  Curiosity?  Discussing it with your current spouse beforehand?  Keeping it a secret from your current love because deep down you are hoping to get back with your ex?   If I were your current spouse and you did it without explaining to me why you were interested, I'd call it cheating.  Interest in another (on the sly) will make your current spouse feel as if you've cheated.  Secrets like that can be destructive.</p>http://aolanswers.com/questions/ex-facebook-cheating-family_495088038785171/depends-purely-motive-nbsp_273463709115054?src=rss:qbp:qbpi<p>It depends purely on your motive.  Curiosity?  Discussing it with your current spouse beforehand?  Keeping it a secret from your current love because deep down you are hoping to get back with your ex?   If I were your current spouse and you did it without explaining to me why you were interested, I'd call it cheating.  Interest in another (on the sly) will make your current spouse feel as if you've cheated.  Secrets like that can be destructive.</p>nnfemale14answer3.0Fri, 09 Mar 2012 16:54:09 GMThttp://aolanswers.com/questions/ex-facebook-cheating-family_495088038785171/depends-purely-motive-nbsp_273463709115054?src=rss:qbp:qbpi